Thomas Ockens

About

I have three decades of real-life experience with the real-life issues of trailing spouses, vulgo: "expat wives"; almost all of my adult life has been spent abroad, as an expat myself.
Whether in Dubai, Dublin, Singapore or Sydney - the reported experiences are remarkably similar, and addressing them will improve your life enjoyment markedly.
While I specialize in clearing the way towards a compelling future, sometimes that means scrubbing out an attic, or basement.
I don't advertise these in the categories further down, but phobias, old trauma and sub optimal experiences are targets that I'm happy to zap while we're working on your more exciting goals.
In the meantime, I have worked with cage fighters, chronic pain, irrational fears, leftfield applications of voluntary hallucinations and the eradication of emotional pain: the opposite of a narrow specialisation, I carry a very well stocked tool belt to draw from for your benefit.

I'm ready when you are.

Services & Pricing

• Initial Consultation: If I am to be in your corner, we should establish really early in the process whether that's going to work. I'm not everybody's cup of tea. My web site will confirm this - please read the Credits section there before booking a time slot.
• First Session — $360 (90 minutes): First session includes intake and administrativa.
• Subsequent Session — $320 (60 minutes)
• Rebuild — $2400: 5 sessions: pick one topic in your life that you are so done with, it isn't even remotely funny. We will work together to excise it cleanly, and replace it with whatever you design. Pick a good initial target: when that one goes from your life, the positive ripple effects will touch all aspects of it.
• Retreat/Rebuild — $5200: 10 sessions, two per day, at an island retreat. Following a hypnotically augmented exploration of what is possible for you, and selecting a latticework of topics you want to work on, and experience differently. One day to arrive, five morning sessions, three afternoon sessions, two evening sessions, one day to gather yourself, in a tropical paradise. Travel and accommodation invoiced separately.

Payment terms: Payment due before the start of the session. Packages: Due before the first session. Retreat/Rebuild: Due in full before travel.

While I am generally weary of pushing a package of (X) amount of sessions upon you, I may at my discretion offer discounted rates if we work on multiple presenting issues over a period of time.